What turns the fluid off?

Q & A: What Causes A Dry Vagina During Sex?

Take time to explore your body to discover what arouses you. Communicate your sexual needs with your partner, Have fun while engaging in sex play! If vaginal dryness continues to be a problem – even after taking time to relax and engage in highly arousing sex play – talk to your healthcare provider.

Q&A: I Orgasm With My Vibrator, Not When Someone Else Touches Me

Vibrator stimulation can be pretty intense and some women (and men) respond far more easily to it than hand, mouth, or intercourse stimulation. It may be that you have a higher threshold for stimulation, and vibration more easily brings you to orgasm.

Q&A: Embarassed About Buying Sex Toys, Sex Toy Parties

I’d like to buy a vibrator, but I have no idea how to go about getting one. I’m too embarrassed to go into a store and pick one out, but I am also hesitant about buying one online, as I bought one off a website recently that totally didn’t work for me and I don’t want to waste more money!

Q&A: I Have Never Experienced Orgasm. Is Something Wrong With Me?

Some women find that they may masturbate for 30 minutes or an hour or longer, quite a few times, before they experience a release of sexual tension in what feels like an orgasm to them. Other women prefer to use a vibrator to help learn to orgasm, as vibrators can often make it easier to learn to orgasm.

Q&A: How Do Women Experience Multiple Orgasms?

We don’t fully understand why some women experience multiple orgasms and others do not. In part, it may have to do with expectations about sex and orgasm. After all, even one orgasm is difficult for some women to experience, so some women may be happy with one orgasm and may not even try to have a second orgasm after their first.