Q&A: I Experience Pain During Sex. How Can I Learn To Relax?

For many years, vaginismus was considered to be a condition that involved the muscles around the vagina going into involuntary spasms, thus preventing penetration. However, research has been mixed on this feature of the condition, with quite a few doctors and researchers being unable to find any evidence of actual muscle spasms.

Q&A: The Missionary Position, What Am I Supposed To Be Doing?

I was looking around on the internet and I saw a quote that read “Missionary is not an excuse to do nothing” and I feel like that’s me. I don’t know what to do while my boyfriend and I are having sex and I think I just lay there. What am I supposed to be doing?

Q&A: Virginity And Overcoming Uncomfortable Sex

My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of months. I’m a virgin, but he isn’t, and I thought I was ready to sleep with him, but when we tried, as much as he tried to relax me and give me lots of foreplay, it was so uncomfortable that I actually tried to ignore what was happening down there.

Q&A: I Have Bladder Prolapse. Can This Be Fixed?

It can take around 2 months to heal well enough to begin having vaginal intercourse again. Research suggests that women often see an improvement in their sexual lives, particularly if their prolapse issues were getting in the way of sex before they had surgery.

Q&A: How Do Women Experience Multiple Orgasms?

We don’t fully understand why some women experience multiple orgasms and others do not. In part, it may have to do with expectations about sex and orgasm. After all, even one orgasm is difficult for some women to experience, so some women may be happy with one orgasm and may not even try to have a second orgasm after their first.

Q&A: My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want To Have Sex With Me

You may love your boyfriend very much, but if you two are not able to create a life, including a sex life, that works for you, then it may ultimately not be the relationship that best suits you. Spending some time thinking about what you need in a relationship may be helpful.

Q&A: Having Trouble Ejaculating During Sex

I’m 18 and recently had sex for the first time. My girlfriend and I have now done it five times in the past month and I haven’t ejaculated any of the times. Is this something to be worried about? I’m still new, and thought maybe it just takes time. I still enjoy it, so it’s okay, but I’m just curious about what you think.

Q&A: Girlfriend Has No Feeling During Sex

My girlfriend says that she can’t feel anything when I’m in her. I never had this problem with women before, and am pretty sure it’s not a size issue as I’m at least average size. What are the reasons why a woman wouldn’t feel anything during sex?


Q&A: The Hymen And Bleeding During First Time Intercourse

Do women always bleed the first time that they have sex? My girlfriend said that she had never had sex with anyone before, but then we had sex and there was no blood on the sheets. Does that mean that she was lying to me about being a virgin?

Q&A: Yeast Infection From Oral Sex?

My wife and I used to have oral sex once in a while and both enjoyed it. Now she says when I give her oral pleasure she says she gets a yeast infection and she won’t let me do it anymore. I don’t think she gets an infection if she performs fellatio on me prior to intercourse. Is a yeast infection possible from oral sex?