Q&A: I Don’t Get Wet And I Have Never Experienced Orgasm

Sometimes medications – such as low-dose estrogen birth control pills – are thought to contribute to difficulties with vaginal lubrication. Other times, certain medical conditions may play a role. Depending on the situation, a healthcare provider may recommend the use of a vaginal moisturizer to help maintain a sense of vaginal wetness and comfort.

Q&A: I Experience Vaginal Tearing During Sex, Even With Lubricant

You might try having sex in the woman on top position so that you can control the penetration. And before trying again, you might take several days – even as long as a week – off of sex to give your body time to heal. Perhaps your vaginal entrance has not had time to heal and so it keeps tearing again in the same place.