You might try having sex in the woman on top position so that you can control the penetration. And before trying again, you might take several days – even as long as a week – off of sex to give your body time to heal. Perhaps your vaginal entrance has not had time to heal and so it keeps tearing again in the same place.
Many young women and men have questions about having sex for the first time and losing one’s virginity. In regard to your question, it is indeed possible to experience vaginal bleeding from either fingering or penile penetration.
How long does it take for the vagina to heal from tears (tears from sex)? If one had consensual sexual intercourse 2 weeks ago and had some vaginal tearing, could it be re-irritated by sex, fingering, other foreplay? Is it possible to obtain tears in the vagina if the male only penetrated once and then withdrew?