Q&A: I Experience Vulva Pain Before And After Sex. What Can I Do?

There are many different causes for pain during sex. Sometimes, women and their partners spend very little time in foreplay, not leaving the vagina enough time to lubricate naturally, which can be painful. If a woman has a male partner who has a large penis, or is she has a small vagina, the genital fit can be painful too.

Q&A: Small Vagina And How To Have Comfortable Sex

Going into my relationship with my boyfriend, I was a virgin and he was not.  I had been told in the past by my gynecologist that I have a very small vagina.  It has never been easy inserting tampons or even my boyfriend’s finger.  Every time we’ve tried to have sex, he can’t get in me at all. What can we do besides try lube?