Q: I used to masturbate a lot but i stopped now I don’t have sexual feelings for long while having sex with my husband. A: Based on how you worded your question, it sounds to me like there was a correlation between how frequently you masturbated and feelings of greater sexual satisfaction with your husband. Many individuals believe that if they have a sexual partner, their need for self-pleasure should go down. This couldn’t be further from the truth! While some individuals are generally more turned on by partnered sex, many still like to make sure they’ve filled up their own tank before taking off to enjoy sex with another.
Some women experience vaginal dryness after taking low dose birth control pills. Also, it’s common for women to feel more dry if they start having sex shortly after a warm shower or bath, if they’re taking allergy medications such as antihistamines, or while they are breastfeeding.
I am not aware of any scientific research that has been published in peer-reviewed journals that suggest any of these methods actually work to make semen or vaginal fluids taste sweeter or generally more pleasant. That said, I am also not aware of any research that discounts these methods – in other words, they are pretty much untested and unknown.
As women near menopause, estrogen levels drop and women may be more prone to experience pain or discomfort during sex. As the vagina becomes more dry, women are also prone to vaginal tearing, which can result in small amounts of bleeding during sex.
There’s something about the power of vibrating products that can make it easier for many women to orgasm. We don’t fully understand why vibrators are so effective at easing some women’s orgasms, but they can be.
Sex may feel dry and your girlfriend may be more prone to small vaginal tears, which can result in small amounts of bleeding during or after sex. Most women will experience small vaginal cuts or tears at some point in their lives.
A woman may be more likely to experience vaginal dryness if she is stressed, taking antihistamines or if she has just taken a warm shower or bath. Women who are breastfeeding also tend to be more prone to vaginal dryness.