The experience of sexual pleasure can also tap into people’s brain chemistry in ways that, as scientists, we don’t fully understand yet. For example, I have heard, from several people who describe sadness associated with sex for reasons they don’t understand.
A while back I found porn videos on my boyfriend’s computer. Ever since, I have felt worthless, sad and like I can’t trust him. He promised he wouldn’t watch anymore but twice I have looked and found them again. My boyfriend says he doesn’t want to upset me, but that it’s just a guy thing – is it? Or am I not enough for him?
I have this fantasy to be part of a coed masturbation group – is this healthy? Sometimes I feel like this is a weird fantasy but then I think that masturbation is a safe healthy form of sexual expression, so maybe other adults would be interested in forming such a group. Does such a thing exist or have you ever heard of anything like this?