Q&A: I Feel Guilty About My Same-Sex Attractions

The way people live their lives and the way they feel doesn’t always line up into mutually exclusive boxes. Sometimes women, for example, can only imagine themselves partnering with, or being romantically involved with, men and yet they feel sexually attracted to some women. Does that make them lesbian? Straight? Bisexual?

Q&A: Am I Gay? Sexual Orientation Labels And Sexual Attraction

I am attracted to both men and women, but slightly more to men. I masturbate to both men and women, but more recently (within the last three years) mostly to men. I have only had sex with one woman, who was my girlfriend at the time, and we broke up a few years ago. Does it sound to you like I’m gay?

Q&A: Questioning My Sexual Orientation

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a few years, and he is hinting toward a marriage proposal. I love him and he is my best friend, but I have always been attracted to women. I have had great relationships with men, but my fantasies focus on other women. How do I figure this out?