It can be very difficult to think or even feel as though your partner does not desire you. Communicating honestly and being vulnerable with your partner can build feelings of closeness and trust within your relationship. Both of you are entitled to your feelings about sex. Some people don’t have much sexual desire for other people. Some people are perfectly happy engaging in little to no sexual behaviors with partners. Other people have stronger desire, or experience desire more frequently. Neither of these experiences is wrong.
Swinging is practiced in different ways. Some swinging takes place in club settings in which people may pay private membership dues. Swinging may also take place at private parties in people’s homes or in privately rented space at a club, bar or hotel.