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Q & A: The Thought Is So Hot, The Reality So Not!

It’s common to have fantasies that one never actually wants to act on in waking life. Many people have fantasies about sexual acts or genders or people or types of people that they simply aren’t into in real life. If this fantasy is a secret you are keeping from your girlfriend, it’s possible the secrecy is a major cause of your arousal.

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Q & A: Is The Problem His Size, Or My Dryness?

The fact that you have limited sexual intercourse experience is not to “blame” in terms of sex being uncomfortable for you two. Vaginas are actually pretty similar in size from one woman to the next. If your partner has a thick penis, it might be uncomfortable for many people to accept into their bodies. A vagina can only grow so much.

Q & A: She Feels Bad After Sex With Me? Why?

consider connecting with a trained sex therapist. Your girlfriend may find it helpful to speak with someone about her emotional experience of sexual expression. She might also find it helpful to speak with a healthcare provider to determine if there are other mood or anxiety issues that may be bothering her more generally, even outside of sex.

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Q & A: Where Are All The Feels?

A woman may become pregnant whether or not she lubricates or has an orgasm during sex. Your level of sexual excitement has nothing to do with your ability to become pregnant – unless you’re avoiding sex because it’s not exciting.