A while back I found porn videos on my boyfriend’s computer. Ever since, I have felt worthless, sad and like I can’t trust him. He promised he wouldn’t watch anymore but twice I have looked and found them again. My boyfriend says he doesn’t want to upset me, but that it’s just a guy thing – is it? Or am I not enough for him?
During sex, my partner usually masturbates me. Lately, he’s been pulling my foreskin a little too far back. It feels good most of the time, but sometimes it’s uncomfortable, and I’m afraid it might tear my frenulum. Is this possible?
I know that all men masturbate but I’m bothered by the fact that my boyfriend does it. I just moved in with him and we have different work hours and our sex life is great when we have I, but sometimes we can’t because of our schedules. Is it normal for him to still be masturbating even though we’re living together and having sex?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 6 months. I am his first girlfriend and he’s never had sex before. He hasn’t been able to reach an orgasm from a hand job, so I find a blow job the only way of pleasing him. However, it still takes him a while – sometimes nearly 45 minutes.
Sometimes my boyfriend watches porn and I can feel intimidated by this. I know this is a common and natural thing for people to do. Sometimes I think I’m okay with this and other times I can’t quit thinking why – Am I not pleasing him enough? Are the girls in his porn prettier than me? Is he thinking about them? I have talked to him about this before and he says it’s not a big deal and I have nothing at all to worry about. So why do I feel intimidated still?
My new girlfriend tells me that she started exploring her genitalia at quite a young age and that she stimulated her clitoris frequently between the ages of 12-18. She now (age 21) thinks that her clitoris is not giving her the normal sensations when it is stimulated (i.e. she wonders if it has possibly been de-sensitized by the earlier activity).
My boyfriend and I mutually masturbate each other. We take turns; I’ll do it to him and then he’ll to it to me. If we are careful to wipe all the semen off of our hands, his hands especially, is there any way I could get pregnant from this? Or is it just a risk if there would be actual fluid that got inside me?
I am 21 years old and I have been with about 20 people (guys and girls). I have been in a relationship for more than a year and he’s great; but he hasn’t been able to have me reach orgasm. I am getting tired of getting him off and he tries to get me off but it just gets me angry and that is all I focus on when I am with him.
I have always had problems lasting long during sex with my ex-girlfriends. Sometimes when I masturbate I will not feel like I have ejaculated yet and there will be semen-like stuff on my hand. Is that stuff on my hands before I ejaculate a problem? Also is there a way I can increase the time I last during sex?