One of the most important issues is going as slowly as you want to about making a decision to be sexual with another person — particularly because this decision can affect so much in your life. If in doubt, don’t do it — there is always time to make a decision.
Q: I used to masturbate a lot but i stopped now I don’t have sexual feelings for long while having sex with my husband. A: Based on how you worded your question, it sounds to me like there was a correlation between how frequently you masturbated and feelings of greater sexual satisfaction with your husband. Many individuals believe that if they have a sexual partner, their need for self-pleasure should go down. This couldn’t be further from the truth! While some individuals are generally more turned on by partnered sex, many still like to make sure they’ve filled up their own tank before taking off to enjoy sex with another.
Premature Ejaculation is particularly common among young men who are relatively new to sex. It can take time to become familiar with one’s own sexual response. Men and women both need time to understand how their body responds to sexual arousal and how they experience orgasm. Most men are able to find ways to delay ejaculation or to come to peace with understanding that this is just how their body works (and doesn’t necessarily need to be changed).
Some surveys of parents, teachers and caregivers suggest that the majority of young children touch their own genitals and many also play age-appropriate games with other children, such as playing doctor, I’ll show you mine or “mommy and daddy” (or “mommy and mommy” or “daddy and daddy” as the case may be).