Q&A: My First Sex Was With A Prostitute, I Did Not Get An Erection

It sounds like you two just walked into a room and took your clothes off. Though that might be exciting for some people, many men and women find that spending time in foreplay helps them to feel more aroused. Foreplay can help men to get an erection and it can help women to lubricate or become “wet”.

Q&A: Why Don’t I Get Turned On When My Husband Rubs My Clitoris?

A woman may become pregnant whether or not she lubricates or has an orgasm during sex. Your level of sexual excitement has nothing to do with your ability to become pregnant – unless you’re avoiding sex because it’s not exciting.