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Q & A: The Thought Is So Hot, The Reality So Not!

It’s common to have fantasies that one never actually wants to act on in waking life. Many people have fantasies about sexual acts or genders or people or types of people that they simply aren’t into in real life. If this fantasy is a secret you are keeping from your girlfriend, it’s possible the secrecy is a major cause of your arousal.

Q & A: I Feel Like Such A Liar!

Q: I wasn’t educated about sexuality until freshman year of high school. I didn’t know girls could like girls, but I came to the conclusion that I was bi sophomore year. I tried coming out to my mom recently, now that I am in college, but she dismissed it, saying I hadn’t showed any signs of being gay as a child and thus it was just a phase. This completely screwed me over mentally because it was already so difficult to go through the questioning process. My family is super conservative and Christian.