Q&A: Is It Unhealthy To Fantasize About My Ex When I Masturbate?

People have different reactions to dealing with masturbating about their ex. Some men and women try to stop thinking about their ex at all costs and may actively try to think of other people while they masturbate, or to focus on others by watching porn or reading erotica, to help them imagine sexual situations that involve other individuals.

Q&A: I Fantastize About My Wife Having Sex With Other Men

Some people fantasize about their partner having sex with another person. Such sexual fantasies may involve threesomes or larger numbers of people involved in group sex or orgies. Other times people fantasize about their partner is cheating on them.