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Q&A: My Girlfriend Ejaculates When She Orgasms

Some people like to keep their sheets and mattresses as free of fluids as possible. If that’s true for you, try laying a towel on the bed before you have sex. Some people do this as a way to avoid getting various sexual fluids on their sheets either because they don’t like the wet spot or they worry about trapping fluids in their mattress.

Q&A: I Bled During Fingering. Should I Be Concerned?

To reduce the risk of vaginal cuts in the future, you may want to use a water-based or silicone-based lubricant, which can help to reduce friction. Also, some women find it more comfortable to “sit” on their partner’s finger so that they can maintain control over the pace and roughness of fingering.

Q&A: I Have Never Experienced Orgasm. What Do You Suggest I Do?

The clitoris extends backward into the body in two branches that may be stimulated from vaginal sex or other types of stimulation. This knowledge alone may give you different ideas for how to approach your body with ideas for stimulation.

Q&A: Connection Between Sexual Abuse & Urge To Pee Before Sex?

As it turns out, it is not uncommon for women to feel as though they have to pee in relation to sexual arousal or sexual behavior. The clitoris, vagina and urethra (which connects to the bladder) are so closely connected that some scientists have suggested that we use the term “clitoral complex” to refer to these interconnections.

Q&A: Clitoral And Vaginal Dryness, Vaginal Discharge

My clitoris is constantly dry and sometimes I can see some white, slightly yellowish discharge on my underwear. It’s not flaky, and it has a delicate bread-like smell. My vagina is not very dry, but during intercourse it takes time for juices to start flowing. There is no itching or redness. What could be going on?

Are You Curious About the Clitoris?

Many women and men are curious about a woman’s clitoris – after all, it is sometimes described as a woman’s “pleasure center” and has a known link to female orgasm.

In teaching human sexuality classes here at Indiana University, quite a few students have asked me [more after the jump]

Vulva Puppet – Education And Fun Combined!

As a sexual health educator, one of my favorite teaching tools has long been my Wondrous Vulva Puppet that I purchased a few years ago from the Good Vibrations store in Berkeley, California. I think it’s such an effective tool that I even took it on the Tyra Banks Show last year to teach women about this important part of their bodies.

Q&A: Clitoral Stimulation: Pain, Tickling And Discomfort

Whenever I try to stimulate my girlfriend’s clitoris whether orally or with my hand she says it tickles or hurts. I have never experienced anything like this with past relationships. Any suggestions to help her become comfortable with clitoral stimulation?

Q&A: Can Masturbation Cause Physical Damage To The Clitoris?

My new girlfriend tells me that she started exploring her genitalia at quite a young age and that she stimulated her clitoris frequently between the ages of 12-18. She now (age 21) thinks that her clitoris is not giving her the normal sensations when it is stimulated (i.e. she wonders if it has possibly been de-sensitized by the earlier activity).