Q&A: I Only Get Sexually Turned On When I’ve Been Drinking

Self-pleasuring and exploring both genital and non-genital parts of the body can be important experiences to try as you take steps toward becoming more comfortable with your body, with sexual touch and with opening yourself to pleasure.

Q&A: Getting Fitted For A Collar – Sexual Fantasy Or Alarm Bells?

Without talking directly to your partner about his idea to get you fitted for a collar, it is difficult to know whether he was making a joke, expressing a sexual desire or fantasy, sincerely making plans to get you a collar and involve you in sexual role plays (such as slave and master role plays) or something else.