Q & A: I Didn’t Come Yet, Did I?

Although learning to delay ejaculation is a common concern of young men, men of all ages and their partners often find pleasure in expanding their sexual repertoire. Rather than focus on intercourse and lasting a certain amount of time, look for opportunities to explore ways of pleasuring each other in various ways.

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Q & A: Is The Problem His Size, Or My Dryness?

The fact that you have limited sexual intercourse experience is not to “blame” in terms of sex being uncomfortable for you two. Vaginas are actually pretty similar in size from one woman to the next. If your partner has a thick penis, it might be uncomfortable for many people to accept into their bodies. A vagina can only grow so much.

Q & A: She Feels Bad After Sex With Me? Why?

consider connecting with a trained sex therapist. Your girlfriend may find it helpful to speak with someone about her emotional experience of sexual expression. She might also find it helpful to speak with a healthcare provider to determine if there are other mood or anxiety issues that may be bothering her more generally, even outside of sex.

Q & A: Why Does This Happen When I’m Asleep?

Some men find that masturbating during the day helps to reduce the frequency of their wet dreams. Other men don’t find any relationship between their daytime masturbation and nighttime ejaculations. I haven’t heard of any way that a man can prevent himself from ejaculating while he is asleep.

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Q & A: Where Are All The Feels?

A woman may become pregnant whether or not she lubricates or has an orgasm during sex. Your level of sexual excitement has nothing to do with your ability to become pregnant – unless you’re avoiding sex because it’s not exciting.

Q & A: So What Is Virginity, Anyway?

One of the most important issues is going as slowly as you want to about making a decision to be sexual with another person — particularly because this decision can affect so much in your life. If in doubt, don’t do it — there is always time to make a decision.