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Q&A: Is It Normal To Fantasize About Having Sex With Random Women?
In fantasy, you can explore sides of yourself without having to worry about what is politically correct or who is actually available to you in real life.
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Q&A: I Think About Women When I Masturbate. Am I A Lesbian?
Few things in life are cut and dry and neither is sexual orientation. Some women who identify as heterosexual have explored sexually with other women.
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Q&A: Is There A Test I Can Take To Find Out If I’m Bisexual?
There are a lot of people who identify as bisexual and who insist that their natural inclination is to be romantically and/or sexually attracted to both sexes.
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Q&A: Sex Dreams, Marital Infidelity and Cheating
A male reader wonders if his wife's lesbian and extramarital sex fantasies mean that she wants to leave him or might cheat.
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Q&A: Sexual Orientation Confusion
A male reader is emotionally attracted to females but physically attracted to males and wonders what this means for his sexual orientation.
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Q&A: Same Sex Fantasies And Sexual Orientation
How do fantasy and sexual orientation relate to each other? Does having same sex fantasies mean that you are gay or bisexual?
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Q&A: Am I Gay? Sexual Orientation Labels And Sexual Attraction
Dr. Debby Herbenick answers a question about sexual orientation labels from a reader who is attracted to both men and women and wonders if this makes them gay.
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Q&A: Sexual Fantasies – Are They Normal?
A reader asks: I’ve been having sexual fantasies about acts I would never consider doing in real life. Is there something wrong with me?
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Q&A: Women And Pornography
Q&A about pornography from a heterosexual female reader who wonders if looking at lesbian pornography is "normal."
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Q&A: Losing An Erection and Sexual Orientation
A male reader asks about losing his erection when having sex with his girlfriend and what this might mean for his sexual orientation
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Q&A: Feeling Horny All The Time, Vaginal Tenting and Lubrication
A reader asks: Is it weird that I'm horny pretty much all the time? And does anything happen to my vagina when I get horny ?
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Q&A: I Had A Dream About A Woman. Am I A Lesbian?
Q&A about the connection between fantasy and sexual orientation from a female reader.


