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		<title>IU Students Get Some Savage Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 19:55:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sex advice columnist Dan Savage offered words of wit in a campus appearance at IU]]></description>
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		<title>Is A Birth Control Pill For Men A Possibility?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 13:21:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The future of birth control might be able to even out the load of preventing pregnancy, if University of Iowa researchers have a say.]]></description>
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		<title>Q&amp;A: How Common Is Anal Sex Among Heterosexual Couples?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2009 14:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Even though anal sex is commonly depicted in sexually explicit films, very few research studies have examined issues related to anal sex among heterosexual - or male-female - couples.]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Even though anal sex is commonly depicted in sexually explicit films, very few research studies have examined issues related to anal sex among heterosexual - ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Even though anal sex is commonly depicted in sexually explicit films, very few research studies have examined issues related to anal sex among heterosexual - or male-female - couples.
Little Research
The little research that has been conducted suggests that about one-fourth of heterosexual-identified women and men have had anal sex, but that doesn't mean that one-fourth of heterosexual couples have anal sex regularly. In fact, research suggests that only about 10% of women and men have had anal sex in the past year.
Reasons For Having Anal Sex
There are, of course, many reasons why people might want to engage in heterosexual anal sex. Some women try anal sex because they want to experience intercourse, and yet they want to maintain what they consider to be their vaginal virginity - in other words, abstaining from vaginal intercourse.

Other times, couples use anal sex as a way of being sexual together without the risk of pregnancy - that is, assuming that a man's ejaculate doesn't seep out from the anal opening and get near the vaginal entrance, in which case a woman could potentially become pregnant.

Couples also try anal sex for reasons of pleasure or novelty, or because it is something that they have heard about from a friend or a partner, or have seen in a movie. While some couples try anal sex and find it to be uncomfortable, painful or not particularly exciting, others find that anal sex is quite pleasurable, enjoyable or even orgasmic.
Anal Sex Does Not Have To Hurt
Although some myths suggest that anal sex is painful, the truth is that - like vaginal sex - anal sex does not have to hurt. If it hurts, a couple should stop.

Because anal sex is a high risk sexual activity, in the sense that it poses a high risk of infection in one or both partners has a sexually transmissible infection (or STI), couples who are interested in having anal sex should take steps to reduce their STI risk.

For example, they can limit their number of partners, use a condom from the beginning to the end of sex, change condoms if they are switching between vaginal and anal sex, and use a water-based lubricant to reduce the risk of tearing.
Recommended Reading
To learn more about safe and pleasurable anal sex, check out Anal Pleasure #38; Health: A Guide for Men and Women.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>Q&amp;A: Readiness For Sex: Trouble With Penis-Vagina Intercourse</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jan 2008 20:20:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi, I am an 18 year old guy and my girlfriend is the same age. We have been going out for about a year and a half now. Our sex play is great but the only thing is I have never managed to actually get my penis in her vagina. She isn’t shaven, I don’t know if this help or not.]]></description>
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		<title>Q&amp;A: Low Sexual Desire &#8211; How Do I Get Interested In Sex Again?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 20:29:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years. Our sex life was really good in the beginning and started decreasing rapidly. By the time that our first anniversary came, we were maybe having sex once a week at the most. ]]></description>
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		<title>Q&amp;A: Virgins Having Trouble With Vaginal Intercourse</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Aug 2007 21:50:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi, my partner and I have not been able to have vaginal intercourse. We were both virgins before getting together, but this is ridiculous! At first, he couldn't get an erection. Now he can get one, but when he tries to enter me, it goes away. Perhaps it is how I grasp him to guide him in. I don't know what to do or who to talk to.]]></description>
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