http://kinseyconfidential.org Just another WordPress weblog Thu, 11 Mar 2010 14:00:33 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 en hourly 1 2006-2007 aschweig@indiana.edu (Kinsey Confidential) aschweig@indiana.edu (Kinsey Confidential) posts 1440 Just another WordPress weblog Kinsey Confidential Kinsey Confidential aschweig@indiana.edu No no http://kinseyconfidential.org/wp-content/themes/kinsey/images/kinsey-podcast-300.jpg http://kinseyconfidential.org 144 144 http://kinseyconfidential.org/safe-put-small-items-anus/ http://kinseyconfidential.org/safe-put-small-items-anus/#comments Thu, 12 Nov 2009 14:00:07 +0000 Dr. Debby Herbenick (M.P.H., Ph.D.) http://kinseyconfidential.org/?p=1258 http://kinseyconfidential.org/safe-put-small-items-anus/feed/ 4 2:31 Generally speaking, it is not a good idea to put small round items ndash; such as ben wa balls or golf balls ndash; directly into ... Generally speaking, it is not a good idea to put small round items ndash; such as ben wa balls or golf balls ndash; directly into the anus. Unlike the vagina, which is only a few inches long and ends at the cervix, which has a very tiny opening, the anus leads into the rectum, where objects can get more easily lost. Losing Objects in the Rectum The rectum is S-shaped so itrsquo;s not just the size, but the shape of this part of the body, that makes it challenging to get objects out once they have gone inside the body. People commonly get even larger items lost inside their rectum ndash; items such as bottles, light bulbs and even salad tongs have been lost or lodged inside peoplersquo;s rectums and have required visits to the emergency room in order to have them removed by a doctor. Removing objects from a personrsquo;s rectum requires great care as the objects can cause harm to a personrsquo;s rectum if they are left inside too long, if they have sharp edges or if they are removed in difficult ways. Toys For Anal Play If you are interested in using objects for anal stimulation, consider using toys that are meant specifically for anal play. There are a variety of anal toys on the market such as butt plugs and anal beads. Because you are interested in round objects, you may find anal beads to be of particular interest. They come in a variety of sizes. Beads that come on cotton strings are best thought of as single use items as it is impossible to clean the string in between uses. Other styles of anal beads are made of silicone or other materials and are easier to keep clean. More Information To learn more about sex toys and safer, more comfortable anal pleasuring check out The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex or Because It Feels Good: A Womanrsquo;s Guide to Sexual Pleasure and Satisfaction. Content,Type,,Pleasure,,Orgasm,,Podcast aschweig@indiana.edu no No http://kinseyconfidential.org/anal-sex-cleanliness-pain/ http://kinseyconfidential.org/anal-sex-cleanliness-pain/#comments Mon, 07 Sep 2009 14:00:32 +0000 Dr. Debby Herbenick (M.P.H., Ph.D.) http://wfiutest.rtv.indiana.edu/?p=1181 http://kinseyconfidential.org/anal-sex-cleanliness-pain/feed/ 0 3:00 Although many women and men engage in anal sex, it is still considered a taboo topic in many social circles. As a result, people rarely ... Although many women and men engage in anal sex, it is still considered a taboo topic in many social circles. As a result, people rarely talk to each other about anal sex, which can leave many people feeling confused or uncertain about how to try this particular sexual behavior about which they may feel curious. Because anal sex involves the rectum, some people ndash; like you ndash; have concerns about cleanliness. You may want to take your time to ease into anal play so that you can become more comfortable sharing this part of your body with your boyfriend and making sure that you both feel comfortable with what you are doing. Many couples, for example, experiment with using their fingers for anal play before ever trying anal sex, involving a manrsquo;s penis. By starting with finger penetration, you can take the time to become comfortable not only with the feelings and sensations related to anal penetration, but you can also explore issues related to cleanliness. Cleanliness Often, people find that it is enough to take a shower before having anal sex or to gently dab their anal area with a soft, wet cloth. Other people feel more comfortable using an enema before they have anal sex. This involves inserting fluids into the anus in order to expel feces from the body. Enemas can often be purchased from local drug stores or on the internet. If you decide to experiment with anal fingering first, consider putting a lubricated condom on over your own or your partnerrsquo;s finger before inserting it into your or his anus. Many people find that it is more comfortable if they add additional water-based or silicone-based lubricant to their condom covered finger. As you become more comfortable with anal fingering, you may feel more comfortable trying anal play using sex toys or anal sex involving your partnerrsquo;s penis. Learning More Itrsquo;s important to know that anal sex should not be painful. If it is painful, you should stop. You can also try it again later that day, on another day or not at all depending on your interests and those of your partner. To learn more about safer, pleasurable anal play, check out Because It Feels Good: A Womanrsquo;s Guide to Sexual Pleasure and Satisfaction. Content,Type,,Pleasure,,Orgasm,,Podcast aschweig@indiana.edu no No http://kinseyconfidential.org/common-anal-sex/ http://kinseyconfidential.org/common-anal-sex/#comments Thu, 05 Feb 2009 05:02:34 +0000 Dr. Debby Herbenick (M.P.H., Ph.D.) http://wfiutest.rtv.indiana.edu/?p=895 http://kinseyconfidential.org/common-anal-sex/feed/ 0 http://kinseyconfidential.org/analingus-safe-anal-sex/ http://kinseyconfidential.org/analingus-safe-anal-sex/#comments Mon, 28 Apr 2008 14:00:29 +0000 Dr. Debby Herbenick (M.P.H., Ph.D.) http://www.kinseyconfidential.org/blog/2008/04/28/qa-analingus-and-safe-anal-sex/ http://kinseyconfidential.org/analingus-safe-anal-sex/feed/ 0 3:23 In recent years, anal sex has become a topic about which more and more women and men ask questions. Not all of them are having ... In recent years, anal sex has become a topic about which more and more women and men ask questions. Not all of them are having anal sex or engaging in anal play, but some are ndash; and itrsquo;s important to seek out reliable information about sexual activities yoursquo;re not certain you have all the facts about. Good for you for coming to us to learn more! Analingus (Oral Anal Sex) The term ldquo;rim jobrdquo; ndash; for those not familiar with it ndash; refers to stimulating a partnerrsquo;s anus with onersquo;s mouth, such as the tongue. It is also called ldquo;analingusrdquo;. It is true that sexually transmissible infections ndash; or STIs ndash; are not the only health risk of analingus. Your partnerrsquo;s fecal matter may contain a variety of bacteria and viruses that your body may not handle well. Men and women who engage in analingus would be wise to check in with their healthcare provider and to let them know of their interest in analingus. They may actually suggest certain vaccinations that can reduce your risk of acquiring a virus. Reducing Infection Risk You can also reduce your risk of problems associated with analingus by using a dental dam or a condom cut in half, lengthwise, as a barrier between your mouth and your girlfriendrsquo;s anal opening. Some couples add a small dab of lubricant on the side facing the partnerrsquo;s anal opening, which can make the experience feel more slippery and pleasurable. Safe Anal Sex As for anal sex, it can certainly hurt even if it is being done properly. Sometimes people find that it is difficult to relax, or that they may not feel like they can ask their partner to stop if it begins to feel painful or uncomfortable. And sometimes people simply think they are doing it properly but are not really taking all of the measures they might to ensure comfort and safety. For example, some couples donrsquo;t think to add lubricant when they have anal sex, and lubricant can greatly reduce the friction of anal sex and increase the pleasure and comfort for both partners. Like vaginal sex, anal sex that is very forceful or vigorous can leave one or both partners feeling sore, and can cause tears or cuts for the receptive partner. Communication is key for both anal and vaginal sex, as are comfort and relaxation and checking in with each other to make sure that sex feels good. Recommended Reading To learn more, consider reading Anal Pleasure #38; Health: A Guide for Men and Women by Jack Morin. Content,Type,,Health,,Disease,,Podcast aschweig@indiana.edu no No