Dr. Debby Herbenick (M.P.H., Ph.D.)

Dr. Debby Herbenick (M.P.H., Ph.D.)

is a sexual health educator at The Kinsey Institute, Associate Director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion at Indiana University and author of several books including Sex Made Easy and Because It Feels Good: A Woman's Guide to Sexual Pleasure and Satisfaction.

Recent Posts by Dr. Debby:

  • Q&A: My Girlfriend Orgasms, But I Can’t Keep My Erection

    What would it be like if you tried focusing on your own pleasure, on what feels good for your body and your arousal?

  • Q&A: How Can I Find Someone Who Shares My Foot Fetish?

    There are women in the world who may have never had a partner with a foot fetish but who might be open to it so long as it's presented in a non-threatening way.

  • Q&A: I Don’t Get Turned On When My Partner Orgasms

    I'm not sure where your boyfriend got the idea that his partner should feel aroused every time that he comes, but it may be worth asking him about it.

  • Q&A: Why Do I Bleed After Sex?

    You might also try using a water-based lubricant during sex. After all, sex is full of friction.

  • Q&A: I Fantasize About Two Men Having Sex

    It’s extremely common for one’s mind to wander elsewhere, including sometimes to fantasies that don’t always immediately make sense to the person having them.

  • Q&A: Should I Have Anal Sex Without A Condom?

    If you want to have anal sex without a condom, the most important thing is for you and your partner to get tested for STIs.

  • Q&A Can I Transmit Jock Itch During Sex?

    Jock itch is not normally considered a sexually transmissible infection, or STI. However, that doesn’t mean that it can’t be transmitted during sex.

  • Q&A: I’m 20 Years Old & Worried I Haven’t Reached Puberty Yet

    It is common for many men to feel like their flaccid penis is quite small and to notice that it only gets larger when they become fully aroused and erect.

  • Q&A: Does It Hurt To Tear Your Hymen?

    Some women find initial penetration to be just somewhat uncomfortable and others find it painful.

  • Q&A: Will Daily Sex Affect My Sperm Count?

    Having sex every day is neither good nor bad.

  • Q&A: How Can I Know If I’m Bisexual?

    Not even all scientists who study sex agree on how to best describe or measure a person’s sexual orientation.

  • Q&A: Is My Lubricant Making My Vagina Dry?

    It’s possible that you’ve irritated your vagina in some way, such as by rushing into sex before you were well lubricated.

  • Q&A: Can I Make My Penis Grow?

    Even surgery is not often recommended, as it carries significant risks, including the risk of developing scar tissue that can affect men’s erections.

  • Q&A: My Boyfriend Has A Foot Fetish

    Just as sexual behavior is diverse, foot fetishes themselves can be as diverse and interesting as the people who have them.

  • Q&A: My Penis Is Small—Can I Still Satisfy Women?

    Research shows that penis size doesn't matter nearly as much as people think it does when it comes to pleasurable, satisfying sex.

  • Q&A: My Boyfriend Masturbates In His Sleep

    Some people appear to be awake, but they are asleep and they may try to have sex with their partner, or even actually have sex with their partner.